Well here's what's new with us. I apologize again for the sparse blog posts; our minds have been elsewhere of late.
The biggest snafu in our lives right now has been with our current rental situation. Here's an excerpt of an email I sent around:
"Most of you have been aware of the constant battle with our landlord over housing issues (hot water, heating problems etc. etc.) since we moved in July. Things have taken a dramatic turn for the worse. We came home yesterday and found an astronomical electric bill (I really mean astronomical). Turns out the electric company has been estimating charges based on previous usage for the past 3 months and this bill involved an actual reading of the meter so we're paying for mis-estimations for the past three months in one bill. ick. I spoke to our landlady yesterday who told me the house has no insulation in the walls (which they did not tell us about before we moved in). I won't repeat word for word what I said to her at that point...her summary is that we are responsible for the bill. Among other things I stated that she misled us and took advantage of our cross country move."
After I sent this email I consulted with a lawyer and sent a letter to the landlady stating everything that was wrong and what we wanted fixed. She had seven days to fix some issues and 30 days to fix others or we would file for rent escrow (in Ohio you're allowed to file for rent escrow and pay your rent to the Clerk of Courts until the issue is resolved). Our hope at that point was to end the lease amicably (after 30 days notice) and just leave. Earlier this week we were told that we could leave on April 1st but we would forfeit 1/2 our deposit.
My initial reaction was "no way!" BUT I wanted to think, pray and talk to Hannah about it. So that's what I told the landlady. After talking with Hannah we had decided to stick out with the lease and not lose half our deposit BUT still file for rent escrow after the 30 days is up. I was going to contact our landlady but hadn't gotten around to it when yesterday we got an email from the landlady saying they would let us out of the lease on May 1 and would refund our full deposit. Hallelujah! I don't know why the landlady and owner had a change of heart; maybe not contacting them for a week "psyched them out" or maybe God softened their hearts. I have no idea but it sounds like we will be moving AGAIN in about 6 weeks.
In other major life changes...we are church hunting again. I think both Hannah and I feel like we weren't being fed where we were....the HARDEST part about leaving this church will be/and is telling the friends we made there that we're leaving:
One of the primary issues that we had was the church's HARSH tone towards people who are not conservative. There's an unhealthy mix of politics and the gospel. As you guys know, I'm not a fan of our current president BUT that doesn't mean you have to bash "the liberal agenda" from the pulpit. If I hear one more time about Obama being a Muslim who hates America and likes to abort babies I think I'm going to scream. Ack, the only reason I think we've stayed there as long as we have is because we were tired of looking AND because of the great younger couples we've met there. It's going to be a hard move and I think people will have hurt feelings. We sent an email (we considered phone calls or in-person visits but didn't want to make it awkward for them..one of our friends is the pastor's son) to explain what we could and told them we would still like to be friends. We sent the email on Thursday and so far...no response. It's in God's hands.
I know that homosexuality is a sin, as is adultery etc. etc. BUT I am CERTAIN that these people, who need to know Jesus the most would NEVER be comfortable in this church because of the constant talk about how they are going to hell. The church places a HUGE emphasis on hell. Every sermon the preacher talks about who is going to hell and the lake of fire, no matter if it starts off as a sermon about heaven. He uses it as a stick to beat people over the head with. I think it's Peter who said, "be wise as serpents, but gentle as doves?" And what about "telling the truth in LOVE," not bludgeoning them with it! God lets us know that difference between right and wrong BUT I like to leave hell judgments up to God.
In other news Hannah is now working two part-time jobs. It's amazing she was able to get two jobs she had no experience in this economy. The downside is that she has to work Sunday afternoons (1-5) and till 8.30 on Mondays and Tuesdays. Hannah seems to really enjoy it...she's always wanted to work in a library.
I'm pretty busy at the schools and at home. I'm still working on my dissertation proposal. According to my prof I'm on track to defend the proposal in May. Thanks be to God! I'm on track. I'm a little surprised because I don't think it's particularly good as yet BUT my committee chair seems to like it. I guess that's what matters. My job may change a bit next year...I'm trying to convince superintendents and principals to buy more of my time (through my ESC) to allow me more time in the schools I work in right now. Most of them seem open to the idea which is nice...they like the work that I do.
Well, that's what's going on for right now...I'll try to update more often. Keep praying for us.